19 June, 2009 by admin

 Once again i am witnessing the same issue. A closest friend who had a whirl-wind wedding after a 6 month steamy romance, is now thinking of getting a divorce. The husband, who seemed perfect to me till the last 10 months (yes, the marriage happened 10 months back), one day just took off to his parents house in Mumbai (His parents never approved of the wedding anyway) and is refusing to return to her. Moreover, he is sending long nasty disgusting mails to all her and his friends – abusing her and acusing her of putting social pressure on him to marry her. He wrote to all these people saying she came to US (where he was working earlier) and stayed with him only to blackmail him, threatned to commit suicide, took 2 lac rupees from him, is responsible for him leaving his job in US and now his jobless stage in India and conctantly fighting.  

Trust me friends, I know this girl. She is madly in love with this guy. And she is an independent girl who is earning a hell lot of money anyway, is taking care of her parents all by herself (money wise as well) and is very generous. I dont understand why is he doing all this! Parents pressure? Maybe. Some other Girl? Maybe. Maybe not. But this very much is clear that he wants to separate. But what is this money thing? She has lost her mind crying over him. 

Can anyone explain this strange behaviour?

Is he trying to build a case against her?

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  1. Anonymous says:

    EITHER HIS PARENTS HAVE SUCEEDED IN BRAINWASHING HIM OR HE IS CHAMPION OF OPPORTUNISTS AND A CHEAT. SHE DOES NOT DESERVE HIM . SHE MUST DROP HIM UNCEREMONIOUSLY. SHE CAN TAKE APPROPRIATE LEGAL HELP.

  2. Deepak says:

    Hi Aditi , it s not strange why he is doing it . He is afraid of taking responsibility of your friend . A typical Indian male dominated by his parents . I would suggest that you leave him alone and try to help your friend to get past the trauma she is in . She should put her past behind and make a fresh start in life, if need be she relocates from Mumbai . A friend who went through a divorce ,took up a job in Hong Kong and is making a fresh start in life . Being a member of Bell Bajao I am actively involved and help victims of domestic violence . If you need support to help your friend do get in touch with me .

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