Hi Friends,

I am no different then any other married woman on this earth. I am educated working but got abused by my husband on small issues just because of his his male ego and his notion that he should get respect because he is a husband.After every argument  he pushes me to go to my parents house.

That day we had gone out for shopping and we started arguing on very small thing and i used a word which was not acceptable to him which i realised later, but reacted so badly on that and unnecessarily he exagrated the things and took me to my parents house and started abusing and shouting. My parents tried to make him calm down but he added that he would have slapped me four times then an there in front of everybody to teach me how i should respect him as a husband. My father in law called at my parents house and starting complaining against me to my parents instead of calming down there on son they told him to leave there to teach me lesson and my husband went off Leaving me at my parents house with my 1 year old daughter. He did not use his own mind. Sometimes i doubt on the maturity level of men, i mean  they are ready to sacrifice their relationship just to satisfy their parents and their own egos. Next i had gone back to my Inlaws house with my father so that things should not exagrated, then every thing was alright and my husband said that your father has realized that you were wrong so thats why he has droped you here again…

i mean for him it was a matter of who is proved wrong thats it.. ….then what is the meaning of relationship and bonding everything vanishes when aggression comes…

Thanks..